Respect your spouse’s family and don’t ever unnecessarily degrade or demean any of his/her relatives, by pointing out their faults or making fun of them. If someone from his/her family is being unreasonable, by interfering in your matters or intimidating him/her against you, you can intervene to stop this action. […]
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Married couples should know that being concerned about your wife’s or husband’s activities l and pastimes does not justify spying on him/her or being unnecessarily suspicious, overbearing and nosy about his/her affairs. Let him/her have a productive and intellectual life during the day. As the husband, your job is to […]
As a married man, your wife’s adherence to religious obligations and her education are your responsibility: After years of marriage, eventually a time comes when most Muslims husbands have no idea how their wives spend their days. It doesn’t bother them to know that their bored wives gossip for hours […]
If you want to make your marriage a true success and a haven of love and mercy, you should obey the advice of the Prophet Muhammad [ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ] in the ahadith below: Jareer ibn ‘Abdullah said: “I asked the Messenger of Allah [ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ […]
One of the foremost characteristics which men desire in women is her beauty. However, a wise Muslim man knows that just like everything else in this world that glitters, the beauty of his wife (or of any other woman, for that matter), is temporary. Hence, he focuses more on her […]
It takes just about three small words to give your wife a compliment, and it doesn’t have to be every day, but it will have an enormous impact on your marital relationship. Those three words could be “This tastes delicious”, or “You look good”. Also, if you praise her within […]
Let me begin asking every man a question: can you carry a book on your head every where you go and every time for 9months? “NO”! I’m sure that is your correct response. Most men usually have no idea of the tremendous physical pain that women go through (carrying a […]
Most people have or want to have a soul mate, a second half, or a life partner and understanding the true meaning of that is also vital for a successful marriage. The foremost quality which Muslim men desire in a wife, after beauty and physical attractiveness, is that she be […]
One of the reasons why men get married is because of sex, and most men make serious mistakes right in the beginning, which cause the greatest blows to their marital relationship. Muslim men should fear Allaah regarding how they handle their wives during intimacy. Here is an Hadith narrated Jabir […]
Allaah says in the Qur’aan: “You have indeed in the Messenger of Allaah, a beautiful example (of conduct) for anyone whose hope is in Allah and the Final Day, and who remembers Allah much.” [Qur’aan – 33:21] The noble prophet Muhammad [ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ] overlooked his wives’ […]
No doubt, premarital sex (zina) is expressly prohibited in Islaam and it is a major sin. Allaah tells us to close all doors and avenues that may lead to zina (fornication and adultery) Allaah says: “And do not even go close to Zina! Truly, it is a gross obscenity and […]
Dear Muslim reader, by now, you probably know what major shirk is — for example praying to statues, invoking others than Allah and so on. And you would never do this, right? However, there are other types of shirk which a lot of us slip into. Why? Because in our […]